Safe Sex that isnt Safe.

okay, based on observation, here are safe sex myths that im sure most of you guys are doing, i did it, and i became a poz.

so if you're doing at least one of the things listed below, get yourself tested, cause, sorry to burst your bubble, you're not doing it safe.

1: unprotected sex with a monogamous partner.

this will be number one on my list as this is how i became infected. so, some believe that you can only acquire HIV if your either gay (new in the list), promiscuous (not-so-new-in-the-list) and a sex worker (age old belief), im sorry, like what i said on my first post - it doesnt just take a lifestyle, it just takes one person. you may be monogamous to your partner now - but admit the fact you arent the first one he had sex with. his previous partner could be infected and not know it, thus he's infected and not know it, and now, it's you.

2: all of my tests are negative so im invincible and i can just have sex! and im not gay!

no one's invincible from HIV. c'mon, even a baby can be HIV positive! (infected by a poz mom), much more you! you could be just lucky that you had your test done when you're in the window period, or you have yourself tested way too early for the virus to be detected.

also, let me add, it isnt true that HIV is only for homosexuals, you know why? because us homosexuals are STRONG ENOUGH to face reality and have ourselves tested, while most heterosexuals aren't strong enough to have themselves tested, which explains two things ; 1: why most study say most HIV poz are gay men (as we're the majority of the respondent) and 2: why there are babies that are born HIV poz (because the dad or mom is too afraid to test themselves.) got it? got it!

3: you're using condom, great! but you're using a wrong lubricant.

so you're using a condom, great, but if you're using a latex condom, and you're using an oil based lubricant, you're doing it wrong. oil destroys the barrier in the latex condom, thus giving you and your partnet without the protection that you need. also, you need to choose the right condom for the right lube to the right use... we have silicone based lube, water based lube, and oil. some also wants to have sex in the pool, the condoms are not tested on chlorinated water, so it's still dangerous.

anyway, better buy the KY lubricant, and check the quality of the condom.

4: condom, check! lubricant, correct - but you swallow.

now this i dont know yet, but you can definitely get HIV via swallowing as the virus, though not found in the sperm, is found in the semen itself, now, if you use your voice professionally, you can never be too sure as sometimes, we (singers/speakers alike) develop nodules on our throat, which could give sores in our gums, thus - a point of entry.

5: condom, check! lubricant, correct, you dont swallow, but you rim.

i guess i dont need to explain why rimming is dirty, naturally. the important thing here and in number 4 is that your gums and throat are intact and has no point of entry.

6: no condom, so no penetration, but you gave good blowjob and played with the precum, or maybe even swallowed - and you brushed your teeth before you give head.

brushing your teeth before sex is BAD. the bristles makes some sores in the gums that you wont notice - this are one point of entry too many.

7: you have your partner cum outside, cool, then you saw that hey, that lil pimple of mine over there just opened up! or you have a small wound there and your partner's cum hit it.

lesser chances but its a point of entry.

8: you have protected sex, used the right lubricant, didnt swallow directly from the cockhead, but you played with the cum.

some will drink the cum from the condom, some will lick their fingers with it. yeah the virus could be dead in a few seconds, but remember, i said, could be dead. not is dead so there is still a risk.

9: everything is good, but cum in my face.

this is only safe if you close your eyes and mouth - and your face is free of acne and pimples and small cuts that could serve as point of entry. but u can never be too sure.

10: you used a condom that is either expired - or u placed in your wallet/pocket .

did you know that condoms are very special? and they need good space, and can only be used on a limited time? i dont need to say more.


so now, let's see.... did you really have safe sex last night?